The Myth of Good Christian Parenting

Christian parents want to raise their kids in a godly way. But what if families have been sold promises that "biblical parenting" can‘t deliver? Drawing on history, sociology, theology, and survey responses from adult children and parents, The Myth of Good Christian Parenting explores how the Christian parenting media industry has shaped--and often strained--families over the past five decades. Marissa Franks Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis trace the rise of Christian parenting resources that idealize obedient kids and perfect households but often leave parents and children feeling like they‘ll never measure up. Through careful analysis of popular teachings on authority, compliance, corporal punishment, and control, the authors reveal the lasting effects on family dynamics and spiritual identity. They equip Christian parents, adults thinking critically about their upbringing, and church leaders to pursue a new path of freedom and mutual respect within their families. "This book belongs in every church, Christian counseling center, and trauma-informed therapist‘s office as a map that details how we got there and how we move forward differently." -- Tia Levings , author of the New York Times bestseller A Well-Trained Wife and The Soul of Healing "Offers a courageous and compassionate critique of popular evangelical parenting models that shaped generations." -- David and Amanda Erickson , authors of The Flourishing Family: A Jesus-Centered Guide to Parenting with Peace and Purpose and founders of Flourishing Homes & Families "Christian parenting needs rescuing, and The Myth of Good Christian Parenting reveals where things went so far off track."-- Sheila Wray Gregoire , author of The Great Sex Rescue and founder of Bare Marriage "Through fascinating historical and theological exploration, Burt and McGinnis graciously identify the pitfalls of Christian parenting tropes and invite readers to a more holistic, grace-filled posture."-- Clarissa Moll , four-time author and producer of Christianity Today‘s The Bulletin podcast